thanks for your support.

Gather round, kids. Grandpa Dubbatrubba’s gonna tell you about a time when there was this thing called “radio.” You could listen to “stations” that played different types of music – you know, like those Spotify “Daily Mix” playlists.

And certain stations — they were usually the small ones, semi-neglected ones, with weak signals, would play all sorts of music that other stations wouldn’t. Up-and-coming bands with weird names. It was called “college rock” and it was amazing.

And if you were a “college rock” band and you wanted to tour, you had to make connections with other like-minded bands. And maybe your parents helped out:

So much has changed about the music business. But there’s still room for “college rock” bands. And they still need friends and family to help promote them.

Buffalo Tom‘s new album Jump Rope came out on May 31st.

They’re still great.

They’re doing a bit of touring, mostly the East and West Coasts, with some European dates, and then a three-night homecoming festival near their Boston hometown.

Tell a buddy, and bring a friend.


Oh, and a bit closer to home, a band called The Collies has been added to the bill for a show at Madison Live in Covington, KY this Sunday. Father’s Day. My oldest son is in that band. They get a cut of the tickets they sell. Want one? Call the drummer’s dad. If you sound like you’re from the South, I’ll talk to you for an hour.

Ohio: The Place to Meet… and Meat!

Article from the Columbus Dispatch:

  • The meats were immediately shipped to the nearest Golden Corral restaurant.
  • Police have started a steak out. If any suspects are apprehended, they will be grilled.
  • Deciding which government agency is responsible for the disposal has become a bone of contention. (Several bones, actually.)
  • This is what happens when your family goes vegan before the big Memorial Day cookout.
  • Clearly someone has beef with a Washington County neighbor, but they’re too chicken to confront them, and accomplices are afraid to squeal.
  • Grandview Hill Road has been renamed Meat Pile Drive.
  • “Captain Eric Hunter”? More like Captain Eric Gatherer!
  • The Oscar Mayer Wienermobile was spotted fleeing to the scene.
  • Soon to be a major motion picture entitled Animal Farm 2: Revenge of Farmer Jones
  • Civic slogan has been changed to “Meat me in Washington County!”
  • The president of the local chamber of commerce was just trying to create a new roadside attraction to compete with Rock City:
  • Morrissey has gone too far this time:

And finally…

9 Simple Words. 1 Amazing Message.

Easy to say, easy to remember… but really tough to put into practice. The vast majority of social media can make us feel inferior – it engenders a lot more envy than empathy. And most advertising is designed to make us want “more” when what we already have is more than enough.

Maybe less content (noun) will make us more content (adjective).

Happiness – it’s not a pursuit, it’s a state of mind.

[Shout-out as always to Grateful Living for the great gratitude reminders via their daily email.]

Making Pies. Making me cry.

I hate Alzheimer’s disease. But I love pie. And I love that someone is using the latter to fight the former. And someone else is shining a light on it.

Chris Joecken is someone I met when he was a student at Cincinnati State, and he was looking to break into the video/agency business. Great kid. Now he’s using his talents to tell powerful stories, and bring light and love into the world.

Here’s what he posted on LinkedIn yesterday:

Made with Love by Helen from Chris Joecken on Vimeo.

Beautiful. Simply beautiful. I know Helen makes fruit pies, but someone must be cutting onions in here. Those “ripples” are streaming down my cheeks right now.

Chris’ post is right on point. Thoreau said “the mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation” but I think most of us have it within us to be more like Helen, and channel our energies toward lives of humble service. A pebble in the ocean, maybe… but enough to make a ripple.

What can we do with our sorrow? How can we be stewards of what we already possess? How can we transform our pain into something beneficial for others? 

Chris Joecken

How are you making pies today?

Time is a Flat circle… or a Hoop

Basketball is a young person’s sport. The average NBA career is 4.5 years. The average WNBA career lasts just 3.5 years.

But then there’s Taru Tuukkanen. Not only still playing in her native Finland, but winning championships… and being named the MVP of the finals with her 13-point, 13-rebound, 14-assist triple-double. Not bad for a 46-year-old.

Excerpt above and quotes below are from this nice feature on Taru by Shelby Dermer on Cincinnati.com. (Taru played college hoops at Xavier.)

Yes, Taru’s been blessed with good genes – she’s never had a major injury. But she also has the will to keep going.

“I have the passion and a crazy mind that I cannot get enough basketball, I understand it’s not normal at all for someone to still be able to do this.”  

Taru Tuukkanen

It’s not normal. But it’s certainly admirable. Taru found something she loved, and she kept at it. The games are the easy part… it’s the long hours of practice, with no cheering crowd, that require a higher level of commitment.

Most of us never play in front of a crowd. But whatever we do, we can only get better through the hard work. The long hours. The practice. Yes, we talkin’ ’bout practice…

You’ve gotta be willing to put in the work. And you will, if you love it enough.

“I’ll know when it’s time. I don’t want to play if I’m not good. As long as there’s a team that wants me and I feel like I can give something to them, then why not keep going?”  

Why not keep going? Words for every middle-aged person to embrace. And be the MVP in a league of their own.