Permission granted

A bit of Monday morning inspiration courtesy of Austin Kleon:

Maybe it isn’t so much “inspiration” as “motivation to create a little perspiration.”

Drawing art, starting a business, writing a book – they all take effort. Even putting an album on the turntable (or creating a playlist) requires a bit of exertion.

You don’t need permission from anyone else. But you do have to do the work.


Austin Kleon is the New York Times bestselling author of a trilogy of illustrated books about creativity in the digital age: Steal Like An ArtistShow Your Work!, and Keep Going. He’s also the author of Newspaper Blackout, a collection of poems made by redacting the newspaper with a permanent marker. 

He sends out a weekly “10 things” email newsletter that’s always engaging. You can sign up for it in the sidebar of his website’s home page.

“Monetize” is not the prize

I’m way overdue for a Seth Godin reference. Lemme rectify that right now.

That’s Seth’s blog post from 10/2. In its entirety. (I should be learning his “economy of words” lessons too!)

When I read this post, I immediately thought of three things that don’t “pay me back”:

  1. This blog.
  2. The podcast I do with my buddy Dave.
  3. My music blog/whatchamacallit (where I also post podcast episodes).

They’re all loss leaders… I’ve earned the princely sum of zero dollars and zero cents, combined, from all three. (Quite the trifecta!)

I have to pay for the domain names, the podcast hosting, the WordPress hosting, anti-spam software… it probably comes out to just shy of $300 a year.

Don’t tell WordPress and Podbean and Akismet and Namecheap, but I’d gladly pay a lot more.

I’m not looking to “monetize” my efforts.

The blog has helped me be a better writer (still a work in progress), stay better connected with my friends, and even connect with one of my mom’s relatives in Italy. Pure gold. And my Cincinnati Magazine writing assignments most assuredly wouldn’t have happened without this blog.

The podcast about 97X seems like a fool’s errand. Very few people listened to the station when it existed, and it’s been off the air for two decades (or a mere 15 years if you include the dot-com era). But the people who listened to the station absolutely loved it. And somehow, some way, despite the lack of promotion (and the weird name of “97X Rumblings from the Big Bush”), they found the podcast. As I tell Dave all the time “every time we publish a new episode, we make 150 people very happy.” Through the pod, we’ve been able to reconnect with old friends, meet new ones, talk to musicians we admire (the latest episode features two members of Too Much Joy), and create a place for folks to relive some of their fondest memories. And hanging out with Dave — one of the most naturally funny people I’ve ever met — is always a treat.

My music blog? It’s mostly a “concert calendar” – every few weeks, I’ll post about the bands coming to town, and throw in a bunch of wacky music-related material. In other words, it’s a chance for me to connect my love of music with my love of being goofy. Sold!

Combined, my trifecta of trash takes up a decent amount of my time. And time is our most precious commodity. But I spend it willingly and gladly. I’m not getting “paid back in equal measure.” And that’s exactly the point!

Plain Jane

Yes, I’m the kinda guy who reads the blog posts of the guy who creates the daily Bizarro comic strip.

Here’s the lead-in to the latest post, which is called “Morality Tale (With Bananas)”:

There’s a ton of inspiration in that. Starting with the words of wisdom from Jane herself:

Each one of us matters, has a role to play, and makes a difference. Each one of us must take responsibility for our own lives, and above all, show respect and love for living things around us, especially each other.

Then from Stephen Jay Gould, who said her work “represents one of the Western world’s great scientific achievements.”

Think about that for a second. And ponder the idea that Jane started her work without any degree, in a male-dominated field. There’s no doubt she had to ignore the doubters at every turn.

Then, some words of encouragement from the guy who does the Mutts comic strip:

I know the best way to honor her is for us all to carry her mission forward.

Indeed! Here’s the mission, summed up on the Jane Goodall website:

Then Wayno (Bizzaro daily cartoonist) weighs in:

… there are still forces for good in the world. We need them, and need to be among them, more than ever.

Amen, Brother Wayno!

Now let’s have Jane bring it home:

“Every single one of us makes a difference every day – it is up to us as to the kind of difference we make.”

Happy Monday! A.k.a. Difference Day.

Smiles > Sadness

Sorry for the ouroboros-like post today. It’s been two years and one day since the passing of my friend Ned. Just like last year, I’m reposting my blog entry from October of 2023, and adding a few new thoughts on life and death (you know, just a couple of light topics).

It’s hard to believe it’s been two years. Maybe some of that is due to the fact that time seems to speed up as we age. But for me, I think a big part of it is because the pain, the sting, the overwhelming sadness of Ned’s passing diminishes over time, and yet the smiles, the joy, the love that Ned gave to all of us is still just as strong, just as vivid, just as real. His death was a punch to the gut that sent all of us reeling. But it had no lasting impact on our hearts. If anything, we love him more, because his absence gives us a greater appreciation for what he meant to us.

The sadness doesn’t go away, but it dulls over time. And the smiles are as fresh as today. Or yesterday. Or two years and one day ago.

Be Like Ned (from Oct. 2024)

One year ago today, we lost our dear friend Ned. (The “we” in this case includes the countless people Ned befriended during his too-short time on earth.)

I’m reposting my tribute to Ned from last October below. And adding a few more thoughts:

  • Be kind to everyone you meet, from the cashier at the supermarket on up, like Ned was.
  • Be caring, like Ned was. Ask others how they are doing.
  • Be faithful, like Ned was. A devoted husband, a proud parent, and a true-blue friend.
  • Be open to adventure, like Ned was.

If we could all be a bit more like Ned, the world would be a much better place. And to those of us who were lucky enough to know Ned, our part of the world IS a better place than it was before he came into our lives.

Photographs and Memories (from oct. 2023)

Back in my college days, if we needed someone to get swung around like a helicopter blade during a party, Ned was there.

If we needed someone to dress up like an elf, Ned was there.

Getting handcuffed to a loft? Ned was there.

Beer bongs? Ned was there.

For all of our Spring break adventures, Ned was there.

If we needed someone to man the grill, Ned was there.

At all those parties — in the dorm rooms, in the quad, and at the bars — Ned was there.

Whenever you needed a friend, Ned was there.

After college, when some folks from our gang got married, Ned was there.

At all the memorable moments over the past 40 years , Ned was there. Always.

Then, this past Monday, out of the blue, Ned was no longer there.

Suddenly —
You were gone
From all the lives
You left your mark upon

Ned had a stroke back in May of 2020 – it caused all sorts of health complications. But his departure still came as a shock. Now he’s in another “there” and we’re still here.

Tried to believe
But you know it’s no good
This is something
That just can’t be understood

Every one of us has a special place in our heart for the guy who was good-natured, sweet, kind, caring, smart, attentive, funny… and always up for a good time. Ned is still there. He always will be.

The easiest way to (sorta, kinda) get on The Tonight Show

  1. Randomly run into Chris “Freekbass” Sherman on Aisle 11 at Kroger.
  2. Ask him what he’s been up to.
  3. Find out he’s a TikTok “creator” doing a live broadcast six nights a week.
  4. Contact John Fox, the editor of Cincinnati Magazine, and pitch a story based on #3.
  5. Get the assignment. (Thanks John!)
  6. Interview Chris.
  7. Write the piece. (I also posted about the process here.)
  8. Have some woman in West Chester, Ohio read the story, and send the main photo from it to The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon for potential use in his “Lookalikes” segment. (I don’t know who you are, but thanks Kathleen Bentley!)
  9. Watch what happened on Monday night.

File this in the “Never in a Million Years” category.

I’m so happy that Cincinnati Magazine got a shout-out, and the crowd cheering “Freekbass! Freekbass!” was surreal. It should be noted that the amazing photo that served as inspiration for the late-night lunacy was the handiwork of Devyn Glista.


(And yes, Jimmy looks more like the guy from Night Moves.)